成人头条

At a gathering of staff in Campus Life and University Relations at 成人头条 State, Vice President Wade Robinson asked groups of employees to stand and be recognized. Assuming that everyone had been recognized, Robinson asked if anyone in the room hadn鈥檛 stood. Laughter filled the ballroom as from the back of the room Grady Landrum smiled and raised his hand.

Landrum, a man who laughs easily and often, is confined to a wheelchair.

Nearly 40 years ago on Dec. 11, 1971, there was nothing for Landrum to laugh about. He was the driver in a one-car accident on a freeway in Atlanta, Ga. He doesn鈥檛 know whether he was over the blood alcohol content limit, but he knows drinking and driving are why he鈥檚 living life in a wheelchair.

Landrum鈥檚 journey is both inspirational and a testament to his never-quit attitude. He has been director of Disability Services at 成人头条 for the past 20 years.

Landrum uses his experience as a platform to talk to church youth groups, and the DUI Victims Center in 成人头条. He regularly talks to people who have been recently convicted of DUI and how it affected him, his family and how they can avoid it in the future.

For those who don鈥檛 know whether to offer help to someone who is disabled, Landrum suggests, 鈥淎sk them if they need assistance first, because you don鈥檛 want to be presumptuous.鈥�

Peer pressure

At the time of the accident, Landrum was 17.

鈥淚 only drank for peer pressure,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淚 never really enjoyed it that much. I remember taking the first drink of beer, and then I don鈥檛 really remember anything solid until about eight days later.鈥�

Driving with a friend, Landrum started going too fast in the two-door stationwagon. After going around a curve, he rolled the car. The driver鈥檚 door was ripped off, and Landrum was thrown from the car.

His friend escaped serious injury. Not so for Landrum. He landed on his head, breaking his neck.

During the eight days he was unconscious, Landrum remembers a doctor standing over him saying, 鈥淵ou鈥檝e been in an accident. Go back to sleep.鈥�

When finally regaining consciousness, Landrum said: 鈥淥ne of the things I did was reach up and grab all the tubes and pull them out, which is never a wise thing to do. I lost two pints of blood because I did that, because I must have ripped up some internal things.鈥�

When he awoke the next day, he started asking questions about what had happened. The first doctor was an intern who said he had a 60 percent chance of being permanently paralyzed.

鈥淚 thought those were fairly good odds,鈥� said Landrum.

Soon after, a doctor told Landrum that, because of the spinal cord injury, there was a 99 percent chance he would never walk again.

鈥淚 accepted it pretty fast,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 go through a lot of anger or 鈥榃hy me, God?鈥� A lot of it was because I knew that I had made all those decisions 鈥� to go out and drink and drive 鈥� and when they told me that I hadn鈥檛 run into anything and that I鈥檇 lost control of the car, I really couldn鈥檛 blame the guys I went out drinking with because it was my idea. It was just a series of decisions that I made, and it turned out really crappy.鈥�

Intensive care

Landrum was raised in a military family, so he was used to changes occurring quickly. For him, it was just another time when life would drastically change. He went into survival mode thinking, 鈥淲hat do I need to do to get better?鈥�

Not many people with spinal cord injuries survived long periods of time in the early 1970s. But it was also during the Vietnam War when a lot of new techniques had been developed on the battlefield with different types of rehabilitation.

While Landrum was in intensive care, on one occasion his heart stopped, but he was resuscitated.

Considering the bleak prognosis, Landrum considers himself fortunate.

鈥淓verybody (in the family) took it fairly well,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淲e kind of just all gathered around and decided what needed to be done. We grew up with a pretty strong Christian faith in our family. I don鈥檛 know how much we really relied on our faith during that time. My biggest concerns were, will I be able to drive a car again and will I ever have sex?

鈥淲hen you wake up paralyzed and there鈥檚 no other option, your two choices are do everything you can to get on with life or give up, and I was never the give-up-type person,鈥� said Landrum.

Moving on with life

After extensive periods of rehabilitation, Landrum went to college, but he still didn鈥檛 know what he wanted to do with his life.

His first degree was in radio/TV broadcast, but after a couple of years working in radio, he knew that wasn鈥檛 for him. He also tried selling ads for a newspaper, but disliked that, too.

Then he heard about the League of Human Dignity organization and started learning about different types of disabilities, disability law and disability resources.

After six years, he still wasn鈥檛 satisfied.

While earning a master鈥檚 degree in counseling from Western Seminary in Portland, Ore., he realized he鈥檚 more of a fixer than a counselor. It was at that time he learned about a job in handicapped services at 成人头条 State.

鈥淚t was a really good fit for my educational background, my personal life, and for disability law and how it applies to different situations,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淎 lot of those skills just fit with me really, really well.鈥�

There were few policies or procedures regarding disability services when he started at WSU. He had 30 student assistants who would take notes for students who needed help.

Now his office serves more than 300 students each semester.

鈥淏eing disabled helps me identify with students,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淓ven though I may not have the same disability, they know I understand some things.鈥�

He loves the work environment at the university, the freedom he has and the creativity he can use.

Landrum, who is 57, has been married for 25 years.

鈥淪o far, so good,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淏ut I also married a really lovely lady. And she鈥檚 not a nurse. That鈥檚 usually what people ask.鈥�

Growing up, Landrum was the shortest guy in his class, so he became the class clown.

鈥淚 was the one who made friends with all the tough guys so that I would never get beaten up,鈥� said Landrum. 鈥淚鈥檝e always used humor as a survival thing, but also I think it鈥檚 a really good way to relax people, take the edge off the situation, and it鈥檚 a good educational tool to use.鈥�

Anniversaries are reminders of what has happened in the past, and while Dec. 11 marks the 40th anniversary of the accident that forever changed his life, Landrum said with a wry smile, 鈥淚 don鈥檛 plan on celebrating or anything.鈥�